No Idea

I have four children and I still have no idea what I am doing. I screw up at least once a day (that's a good day).  You would think that I would have some clue by now about being a good mom and about what works and what doesn't work. But every child is unique and different and I am still trying to figure things out. Good thing children are so resilient especially mine.  My mom would always say "do what I say, not what I do". So true.  I say "don't yell" but in the next second I yell, I say "don't fight" but then I sit and argue with my 7 year old. Pretty ridiculous I know. This being a mom stuff is really hard.